WATCH WAIT and WONDER (WWW)

WWW is a child led activity where your child is given the opportunity to have your undivided attention for 20 to 30 minutes.

Non directiveness on your part is the most important goal.

Sit on the floor with your child together with toys that she enjoys – this will vary dependent on her age. Try and have the same toys available for each session.

Conduct the WWW sessions preferably in a closed space like a bedroom away from distractions like TV and other family members the dog or the cat.

Switch off your phone and attempt to have no other responsibilities other than being present for your child in a WWW mode.

Watch what she is doing, Wait for her to engage you ( or not as is sometimes the case ) and Wonder what the meaning of her play might be. Play is children’s work a place where they metabolise unresolved challenges and feelings. You can often learn a lot about your child by watching her play.

WWW is an opportunity for you and your child to be away from the business of everyday life, for you to be still and for your child to revel in your undivided attention.

WWW is not a time to teach or instruct your child to modify her behaviour or to teach her manners. All it requires is your stillness and your willingness to be available in a WWW mode.

You don’t have to set up elaborate games or be a creative playmate. You can relax and be an engaged observer of whatever unfolds during this special time.

WWW is parent child therapy. It is a very powerful way of spending time together and has the potential to profoundly enrich the relationship between you and your child.

Do WWW for a minimum of 3 times a week. Book an appointment to spend this time with your child and be amazed at the changes that you will experience.